The mutual or double empathy problem between autistic and non-autistic people can be partly dissolved by slowing down and taking time to consciously listen to and take in each other’s perspective. I am here to listen, slow down and facilitate your conversation.

Partners in neurodiverse couples often feel that they are speaking different languages. I can translate between them and help you understand each other’s communication and love language better.

For recurring situations like the daily transition from work into couple life, family reunions or whatever it is you are struggling with as a couple, I can provide you with little tools that help you avoid common conflicts or take the drama out of them.

Success stories of happy neurodiverse couples and families are not often heard. You can ask me anything and I will answer honestly from my experience as a counselor but also as an autistic person with over 20 years in a neurodiverse relationship.

I won’t tell you whether to stay together or not. And I surely won’t decide which one of you is right in an argument. I assume you want to understand each other and maintain or revive a connection. Which kind of connection, is up to you.

Whether you want to see me once a week for a year or only every now and then when you had a conflict you don’t seem able to solve on your own - anything is fine with me. That being said, often one session is enough to get you talking to each other again.

I know first hand what it feels like to be in a neurodiverse relationship as a person on the autism spectrum and with PTSD. I welcome clients with any other type of neurodivergence.